Well, for those who might be running into these same issue, I have found an answer.
If you are working with VM's that do not need internet access the solution for this issue is listed below.
After reading most of the detail information about Workstation's networking I could find this is how I corrected my issue.
First don't use NAT and Bridge virtual network setting. These are for getting outside the local network. The NAT option just wouldn't handle all the connection and would drop packets randomly. I couldn't test the bridge mode because my server host company will not allow that to happen. That only left host mode. This ended up being the best option for my case because I only wanted my Host & Guest to talk to each other.
1) If your using NAT or Bridge mode and you have your IP address set, open the virtual networking and change those to some other IP address.
2) Create a new Host only virtual network with the IP address that you want to work with your VM group & Host. This should give you all the info to setup your IP address on your VM's.
3) You can use DHCP, but if you need to setup IP rules in any software, I would use a static IP address.
4) Make sure all vmware tool are installed and up-to-date.
5) Restart your VM's. This should have you working. Best way I found to test the connection in both VM to VM and Host to VM is using your standard ping command. Ping from inside the VM's and in the Host. You should now see that you will no longer have dropped packets.